Author name: valknight

The “perfect moment” you’re waiting for to take action? It’s never coming. And here’s why that’s actually GOOD news.   So many of us wait for the perfect conditions… the right time, the right mindset, the right set of circumstances. We tell ourselves we’ll start when everything aligns, when we feel ready, when everything is […]

I know you’re tired… Tired of trying to make things work in your relationship. Tired of feeling like you’re doing all the emotional labor. But you need to hear this…  It’s not your partner who needs to change—it’s you. I’m not saying this to put blame on you, but to show you the path to

This week I wanted to talk about something that continues to be brought up in my 1-1 coaching sessions… the cycles we get stuck in, especially in our most intimate relationships.  It’s so easy to feel like you’re walking in circles, caught in a web of unmet needs, unspoken expectations, and frustration. And sometimes, the

I’ve had clients who are incredibly passionate about their work, but they feel stuck.  They’re torn between several ideas, unsure of which direction to take or which path will truly lead them to fulfillment. This is what I see all too often: You’ve got so many ideas and dreams, but they feel scattered. You’re struggling

Do you ever feel like you’re stuck? Like no matter how hard you try, you just can’t move forward? You’re doing the work, you’re trying to heal, but somehow, something is holding you back. What if I told you that the reason you can’t heal is not because you’re stuck, but because you’re afraid? Yes,

Have you ever felt like you’re constantly proving your worth to others?  You find yourself seeking validation from the people around you, whether that’s from your partner, friends, or even from your own expectations. It can feel like you’re on a hamster wheel, always striving to do more, be more, and achieve more in hopes

Let me ask you something… does this sound familiar?   You’ve been feeling a growing emotional distance in your relationship. It’s not that anything necessarily happened overnight, it just feels like there’s more space between you and your partner than ever before. It happens when communication breaks down, emotional needs get pushed aside, and vulnerability

I’m beyond excited to share a special episode of the Decide to Heal podcast with someone who is so incredibly dear to me… my beautiful daughter, Mia.   Mia has grown into a wise, beautiful, and strong woman, and I couldn’t be prouder of the woman she is becoming. 💕 In this episode, we dive

Have you ever found yourself waiting for a loud sign from God?   I have. Recently, I realized that I hadn’t been hearing His voice as clearly as I usually do, and it made me question everything. ✨ Am I on the right path? ✨ Am I doing what I’m meant to do? ✨ Is

I have a deeply personal and transformative podcast episode to share with you today that I know will resonate with your heart. I sat down with the incredible Karenna Soto, an inspiring speaker, coach, and co-host of The Fully Expressed Podcast on MY podcast! She is incredible and she shared her struggles with… burnout and