What if the very thing that’s keeping you stuck is the need to control everything around you? 

What if your constant striving for certainty and perfection is the thing holding you back from experiencing true peace and freedom?

Let’s talk about surrender.

Not the defeated kind of surrender, but the powerful kind that requires trust, faith, and the willingness to let go of control. It’s the kind of surrender that asks us to stop trying to figure everything out on our own and instead lean into God’s plan, even when we can’t see it.

You’ve been hustling, haven’t you? 

Hustling for your worth, hustling to prove you’re enough, hustling to make sure everything goes according to your plan. But what if I told you that the real freedom, the true peace, doesn’t come from having everything perfectly controlled?

It comes from surrender.

Surrender isn’t about giving up. It’s about letting go of the illusion of control. It’s about choosing intimacy with God over the comfort of certainty and trusting that His plan is bigger and better than anything we could ever orchestrate.

I’ve seen so many women stuck in the cycle of trying to make everything perfect, trying to control outcomes, and clinging to what’s familiar… even when it doesn’t serve them. The truth is, this addiction to control can keep you from the very things you’re longing for… peace, alignment, purpose, and freedom.

The question I want to ask you is this:

What would happen if you chose surrender over control? 

What would it look like if you trusted God with the things you’ve been trying to control and instead, focused on being obedient to the purpose He’s calling you to?

In this episode of the Decide to Heal podcast, I sat down with my dear friend, Tiffany Peterson. We talk about what surrender really means… the kind of surrender that opens doors to healing, freedom, and true alignment with God’s plan.

Here’s a sneak peek of what you’ll hear in the episode:

✨ Why we keep trying to control everything and how it holds us back

✨ The equation of freedom: how surrendering leads to peace

✨ How spiritual alignment reshapes everything—including how we show up in business

✨ The real meaning of sales and service when you let go of control

✨ Overcoming fear around showing up and embracing the discomfort of surrender

🎧 Listen to the full episode here!

This conversation cracked me wide open, and I know it will do the same for you. 

If you’re feeling stuck in the need to control, if you’re afraid to leave what’s familiar, or if you’re ready to finally surrender and step into your true calling, the 180 Method® can help you get there.

Let’s talk about how you can stop holding on so tightly and start trusting God’s plan, book your Free 180 Method® Consultation today.